October 24 - November 23
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All about Scorpio
Scorpios get a lot of press for being the most sexual sign of the Zodiac--which can be true, but is not always the case. What is true, is that Scorpios are passionate and intense. They are into power, and into unearthing the deepest, dirtiest corners of any person or situation they encounter. They may not always be aware that that is what they're doing, but Scorpios like things intense, and have a rare ability to attract passionate and tumultuous circumstances into their lives. They can be extremely aggressive, and cunning, and no one is more determined or ruthless when it comes to getting what they want. They have a love of secrets, and intrigue, and are good at creating an air of mystery about themselves. At worst, Scorpios are jealous and manipulative.
Love and Romance
Even if they aren't the "sexiest" sign, Scorpios certainly are the most passionate! They really do attract intense emotional and personal situations! Scorpios have a tendency to be possessive and a bit jealous. They give a lot to their mate, and they want a lot in return. Since they are always looking for another peak experience, they CAN be indefatigable lovers, who also bring with them the other side of passion: fights and a constant sense of emotional upheaval. This is more likely with younger Scorpios; with age, the experience of so many "life and death" emotional experiences grants a certain degree of wisdom and understanding to many a Scorpio.
Work and Career
Scorpios want power--even if it's just power over the water cooler! If they turn their famous focus and intensity upon their work, nothing will stop them. They are good at behind the scene manipulations and negotiations, and their love of secrets makes them good investigators. Creatively, Scopios will not want to make anything tepid, or simply attractive or beautiful. They'll want to make art or music or literature that provokes and reveals heretofore unrevealed layers of existence.
Scorpios make loyal friends. Their love of secrets make them good confidantes, and their need to confide their own secrets to SOMEONE insures that they'll KEEP yours- after all, they want the same consideration from you! They are reliable, and will defend you to the death against any real or imagined slight from outside. Scorpios are famous for their sharp tongues, which is only a problems if you get into a fight with one!
Scorpio Women/ Scorpio Men
Do not make a Scorpio woman angry wirh you! She may not show it immediately, but she will not forget an injury, and she will exact retribution! Passionate and volatile, a Scorpio woman makes a fierce friend, lover, or business partner---just make sure she's on your side. She will not always be honest or direct--although she may not exactly be dishonest. There is no end to which she will NOT go to achieve a goal, personally or professionally.
The Scorpio man is aggressive, and unstoppable in achieving his desires--regardless of whether or not what he wants is in his best interest! (True for Scorpios of both sexes). He will court love with a persistence and ardor that is not to be believed. However, be forewarned, he will always be looking out for himself in any personal or professional situation.
Why are some signs more compatible than others?
Here's a guide to help you make sense of Sun Sign compatiblity categories.
The Opposite Sign: This one is a little tricky, because, while opposites attract, and you just may be so perfectly unlike your mate that you fit together like two jigsaw pieces, you may clash.
Same-Element Signs: Signs of the same element are usually a good match. The four elements, and their corresponding signs are:
Fire Signs (active, passionate): Aries, Sagittarius, Leo
Water Sings (intuitive, emotional): Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio
Air Signs (full of ideas, active minds): Libra, Gemini, Aquarius
Earth Signs (grounded, sensual): Capricorn, Virgo, Taurus
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Same-Quality Signs: (except for the one that is your opposite) The qualities and their signs are:
Cardinal (initiators): Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn
Mutable (good mixers): Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Fixed (stubborn): Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius
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Fire signs generally get along with Air signs, while Earth and Water signs get along with each other.
Huh?!? Go Figure!?!
For example, Fire and Water signs... WHY? (After all, we use water to put out fires!) In general, if there are some SUN SIGN combinations that dont seem to offer much, but do, something else must be going on! In the coming weeks, we will look into the other aspects of your chart that have a say in who is compatible with whom.
Weird Matches Sagittarius, Libra, Aries and Gemini are the Signs which don't quite make sense with Scorpio. Of these three, Sagittarius and Scorpios actually often make very good lovers. Sagittarians are known to be a very physical sign, which adds a nice element to the dynamic. Somehow, this combination, which shouldn't work, often does for a while.
Scorpio and Libra are usually on very different wavelengths. Most often, Libra will want an easier relationship than Scorpio will offer. Likewise for Scorpio and Aries-in spite of the fact that both signs share Mars (the planet of drive and aggression) as their ruling planet. This combination can result in powerful sexual attraction with a certain sense of mutual respect.
Scorpios get along well with the Earth signs, including their opposite, Taurus. The other Earth signs, Capricorn and Virgo, generally make very good friends with Scorpios, and can be good mates or lovers.
Scorpio will appreciate the practical quality of both Capricorn and Virgos. They'll love the Virgoan analytical perspective, and these two signs can talk forever about anything intuitive or psychic. Scorpio will bring out the intensity and passion in both signs. Virgo and Capricorn will be able to handle these some-times difficult Scorpian qualities.
Capricorn and Scorpio can make a very powerful business combination, and can be very sexy as well. Both signs really like status, for very different reasons--but they work well together, as long as they don't get into a power struggle.
When Scorpios don't get along with someone, they REALLY don't get along. The most dangerous combination, arguably in all of the Zodiac, is a Scorpio and a Leo. It is certainly one of the most combustible.
Scorpio is into power and control. Leo likes to be the center of attention and attract drama. THIS is a dangerous, although very passionate combination, one likely to have the best, or at least the loudest fights imaginable. What could be more difficult than two stubborn people, one of whom is determined to exert power in every situation, and who won't let a single emotion pass by easily, and an easy-going, but attention-hungry leader? This combination actually CAN work, if the Leo is especially easy-going, and if the Scorpio is very self aware and able to control or at least have a little distance from their intensity.
The other sign that a Scorpio "should not" get along with is Aquarius, who is just too impersonal for Scorpio. Scorpio, on the other hand, is too intense and needy for Aquarius. Additionally, Aquarius like a bit of distance, and a kind of friendly, dispassionate quality to even their closest relationships, and Scorpios are just not that way!
Scorpio is a Water sign, and tend to get along best with the other Water signs, Pisces and Cancer. These three signs will certainly connect emotionally. They all share a tendency to put their feelings above any other aspect of their life.
Pisces will soften Scorpio's aggressive emotional nature, and could introduce them to a more spiritual or metaphysical approach to their emotions and subconscious. They will share a love of the occult and metaphysical. Pisces will appreciate Scorpio's desire to find meaning and depth in every encounter and activity, while Scorpio will help Pisces to be more focused and could encourage them to be more determined in following through on their ideas, feelings, and creative impulses.
Scorpio's opposite sign is Taurus. Taurus will make Scorpio feel secure and safe, calming their tendency towards possessiveness and jealousy. The biggest danger here is that while much of the Scorpio need for control will go right over Taurus's head (which will be entirely unnecessary)--watch out if the Taurus starts feeling their being pushed around! Nothing will move the Taurus, and Scorpios can get very nasty when they don't get their way! They have very different approaches sexually. Taurus is sensual, whereas Scorpio is into the intensity and the power of the experience, but this can make for a very exciting dynamic.
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